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this line:

var widgetid = jQuery(".star-dropdown").parent().children(".star-widget-id").val();
 
should be:

var widgetid = jQuery(this).parent().children(".star-widget-id").val();
 
In your original code,in the event handler, you're finding all of the selects with a class of 'blah'. Simply put, it means you're working with the first select on the page(no matter what select has changed) You don't want all of the selects with a class of blah, just the one that has the change event fired.
jQuery(this) inside an event handler will refer to the element that was 'clicked', 'changed' etc. This means that when the function traverses the DOM to find the parent etc, it will start from the relevant select, not from the first one on the page.

The store owner should keep the money for the items he has sent out.
The bank should refund the expenses on the ladies card since its their card that got used.
 
Paypal shouldn't have been involved.
 
Your client has screwed himself over. Losing money and stock.

A few too many sharp edges for my liking, makes the site seem harsh. Chunk font isn't too bad for the big headertags but the top menu is a little "too much detail for something so small".
 
I like the textured background, the browns are lovely. The timer on the banner is great, might put something similar on one I do in the future. About pages layout is ace, I can't often get clients interested in layouts like that because the backends tend to have a lot of edit areas.
 
Certainly an improvement, I've bookmarked and timered the link for a looking at in 3 months.

yeah, think your right. sounds like a issue with the response headers so they are re-trying, had that problem when we first made our google checkout code

Have you checked the IPN history in the paypal account (sandbox one in this case)? It sounds like the script is not completing and will continue trying until it can. Anything other than a 200 response will make it retry I think.